🇫🇷 How I failed at taking a month off

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 🇫🇷 How I failed at taking a month off
Hosting at my first creative writing retreat

Hiya 🌊,

Quick house notes:

Back to it…

I wrote to you all at the beginning of August about how I was going to take the month off.

Spoiler alert: it didn’t quiet work out that way.

As this was my third summer in France, I felt very confident in knowing my rhythm to navigate the 8-week summer holiday.

I had planned to get as much done in possible in July when I had my youngest in creche and my eldest two in in centre aéré (the equivalent of local council supported childcare).

My fails

🏝️ I planned on using my family co-working holiday as the opportunity to sell-out my creative writing retreat. I put a lot of pressure on myself to be online and answer queries and chase interested guests.

📣 You would think given that I work in promotion I would remember how much time it takes but I vastly under estimated the time I needed to share about the September retreat. (You can read more about how I launched it here).

Borrow everything I've learnt from launching a retreat

💌 There is always a natural newsletter churn. Not focusing on growth over summer made the return to September dashboard stats a bit daunting.

👻 I’m building a new website on Ghost. I was hoping to have it finished mid-August and live by first week of September but it also took longer than expected.

🤖 Lucy AI. CoachVox delivered me some great AI prompt bases which I can use as a template to start but I can’t execute the recommended next steps with the nurture sequence until the website is finished.

🥸 Other paid content work for my expertise landed on my desk and they were both two good opportunities that were not were turning down.

What I will do differently next time:

📆 Not launch something over the summer holiday period.

🙈 Have a longer waitlist. Takes the pressure of selling in a small window and means if I do get any cancellations I’m not having a stress breakout as I can have a waitlist in place.

💌 Prepare more in July for next September. Rather than knowing I need to find relaunch energy straight after four weeks childcare of 3-kids under 8 and then hosting my own first retreat.

✏️ Pre-written articles. Have some more in surplus because sometimes circumstances change or people have not signed off.

♻️ I had historically taken all the social media apps (I include Substack as one of those) and email off my phone. Over time, they had slowly one-by-one crept back on which meant I ended up doing the digital addiction refresh dance cycle of app refreshing. I want to go back to taking the apps off and just checking on my laptop when I have proper space and time to interact.

What I am doing next:

📏My biggest takeaway is I need to have a waitlist for everything. I should have had one in place for:1 working with me one-to-one and 2. cancellation/waitlist reserve for September ‘26 retreat and next June (creating one for September 26 instead)

📆 Get my monthly lives and weekly DM chats in a more organised calendar format for my paid community. I know my best work comes from the face-to-face and bespoke consultation.

😮‍💨 Breath about the website, I’m the only person who cares it’s late.

🗃️ I’m looking for a work experience placement in January 2026. I’ve already had an Instagram DM with one creator entrepreneur based in NYC who I’m interested in shadowing.

👣 Walk my talk by continuing some big pitching moves. I’m going to set up my own list of stretch goal opportunities.

🏝️ After I finish drafting this newsletter, I’m going to practice what I preach and take a few hours off to enjoy some silence and space at my own retreat.

Lucy x

P.S. Keep on hyping and send me any tips on how you manage taking time off as a self-employed person!

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